Marriage of Magicians

Service Description

First, we will complete an exercise to discover the primary aspects of you and your partner. We will list all of the ways in which you are opposites. Next, we will identify the sub-personalities of each of your psyche. We all have an Inner Critic, an Inner Judge, and a Protector/Controller that we have developed to survive in the world. You will give these different parts unique names so that you can separate them from yours and your partner's aware ego. When the Inner Child is hurt, the army within us lashes out at the other. Now, you will be able to separate yourselves from the warriors of your sub-personality and have more of a sense of humor about the situation. Next, we go on an inward journey to allow you to recognize how you are perceived by the Inner Child of your partner when you are critical. Together, we visualize how having a "perfect" relationship with no conflicts can become a train wreck, so that you can be more at ease with periodically having disagreements. We'll work to separate your aware ego, allowing you to not become defensive when your partner makes an observation about your actions, but to realize they are helping you to become more balanced. An energy exercise will be done to help you to notice the subtleties of when your partner has pulled back. We'll discuss how to address this discomfort. Lastly, we'll go over the importance of noticing when your Inner Child is hurt and how to communicate this to your partner in a loving and peaceful way. ​